A Short Guide on How to Make Women Orgasm

Firstly, allow me to preface the article with a disclaimer that I seem

to be using a fair bit lately:

You cannot MAKE a woman orgasm. All you can do is help her to achieve it. Sex is a partnership and a two-way street, and unless you’re the next Jesus Christ, you’re going to have serious trouble making a woman orgasm without her helping out.

Having said all that, you can get a woman to orgasm quite easily if you get her to help you - and you don’t even have to let on that you’re doing it.

I’m about to share with you some techniques that I regularly use to get women to have their first ever orgasm. And these are women that have been with five, ten, sometimes more sexual partners - and never had an orgasm.

1. Build Sexual Tension

Building sexual tension is an art and a science in and of itself, and unfortunately there isn’t really room in this article to go into it. At it’s core, sexual tension is about building up desire in the woman to want to have sex with you. It’s a simple concept, albeit one that can be rather difficult to perform. If you want to know some of my tips to build sexual tension, then feel free to check out my website via the link below.

2. Get Her Relaxed

Now you’ve excited her and pushed the thought of sex with you to the front of her mind (and made it appealing), the next step is to ensure she’s not getting in the way of her own sexual pleasure. There are multiple ways you can do this, but one of my personal favorites is a massage. It might sound like a cheesy cliche from an 80’s porno, but releasing tension in her back, neck, and shoulders will help to relax her full stop and allow her to be more in tune with her sexual feelings. Plus it really makes a good case for you and your “magic hands”.

3. Take the Lead

If she’s never had an orgasm before, or hasn’t had many, it is very unlikely she’ll actually be able to communicate to you her likes and dislikes. In light of this, try and ensure you take the lead, gently but firmly. Don’t ask her if she wants you to go down on her - just do it. Believe me, she’ll let you know if she wants you to stop. Obviously certain things - like anal sex - require lots of preparation, but I’m going to assume you’re sensible enough to understand the extreme basics of how sex works, and not do anything dumb.

4. Pull the Trigger

Psychological triggers can be very important in helping a woman achieve orgasm. Whilst I don’t have room to explain their many powerful uses here (although that is explained in my book), here is a really powerful tip.

When your woman gets close to orgasm, try using a verbal trigger to help her “get over the line”. Tell her that you know she’s about to orgasm, and you want her to orgasm really hard for you. Unfortunately I cannot really give you any examples in this article due to restrictions on profanity and so forth, but check out my ebook via the link below if you want some of my personal favorites that will make her scream with pleasure.

10 December 2008 | Sexual Health | Comments